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You know you have to be in alignment in order to attract the relationship that’s in your vortex. But how do you do that when you keep noticing that the relationship you want isn’t here? When you keep noticing that your lover hasn’t arrived. Or that the lover who showed up, who seemed so right, turned out to be wrong in so many ways.
How do you stop noticing what-is about your relationship (or lack of relationship!) when it knocks you off balance every time you think about it?
How do you start spending more time in the vortex when you think about Relationships, so that you attract what you want?
Most people try to create the relationship they want
And trying to create a relationship backfires because we do our creating when we shoot off rockets of desire. Our work now is just to feel good. The rest of the job is up to the Universal Manager.
But what if the Universal Manager is taking too long?
Ha! Feels like that sometimes, doesn’t it? Easy to mix things up.
We trip ourselves up when we work so hard at creating our grid. Then we go the other way and try to be easy about it (at least, we think we’re being easy about it!). Then the doubt creeps in.
If I created the grid of what I want, then why isn’t the relationship showing up (or why isn’t my existing relationship any better)?
We can mentally run ourselves in circles, quoting the Abraham teachings all the while
After all, we know how the Law of Attraction works. We’ve manifested what we want in other areas. So why does alignment about Relationships escape us? (Or whatever your subject is. Could be money or health or your job. Fill in the blank with any subject where we’re talking about Relationships.)
Because there are two ways we trip ourselves up
One thing we do is, we talk about the situation — thereby perpetuating it. So it can seem like the solution would be to talk about anything but relationships. And that would work very well if we could also not think about relationships.
That’s the second way we trip ourselves up, by thinking about Relationship even if we aren’t talking about it.
If we can’t avoid thinking about it, then it doesn’t matter that we’re not talking about it
(Well, it surely helps that we’re not talking about it!) But if we can’t stop thinking about it and we haven’t changed our energy, well, we get what we think about, not what we want. So what do we do?
Don’t worry, there is a way to break the cycle
Not only is there a way out but you already know the way out. You know how to align your energy; you’ve done it in other areas. You just get a little (excuse me) spastic about this one subject.
Everybody gets knocked around by certain subjects; there’s no shame in that
It’s easier to maintain our balance in some areas of life than in others. For the areas where we tend to get tossed around, there are two things that can be really helpful.
The two things that help are the same two things that were throwing us off balance
The same but different. Remember, it was talking about the situation and thinking about the situation that kept us looking at what-is. The difference is, in The Relationship Course you’ll be talking and thinking with deliberate focus and structure.
What is the Relationship Course?
Three Months of establishing a New Grid
A new grid is what we’re working toward here
No guarantees about a relationship manifesting or your current one changing. Of course, when we change our grid, then what is manifesting around us changes as well. But exactly how it changes is not our call.
Remember that there are generally four stages of manifestation
First is an improved emotion. Second is, ideas begin to show up. Third is, helpful people (cooperative components) appear. And fourth is what we are generally referring to as “a manifestation.”
By focusing energy and achieving an improved emotion through the assignments, we reach the first stage of manifestation. (I’m not sure that “stage” is exactly the word, but it’s close enough that I think you are following.)
In the next stage we get ideas that we didn’t have access to before
On weeks where you’re doing more of the written work (the “challenging” part), you’ll see the ideas show up right on the page. (Well, people don’t always see them at first but I’ll point them out.)
The helpful people and cooperative components are a lot of fun, and these are going to be part of the daily check-in for both tracks.
Shifting your limiting beliefs
You will look at your limiting beliefs around relationships, and apply the Abraham teachings in a step-by-step unfolding.
We will take the time to apply different methods of loosening up the energy. Some approaches work better with certain vibrational setpoints. And other approaches are a better fit to particular personality types. We have the time to delve into that.
The work of the participants has direct impact on where we take our work on the course. I have taken many online courses myself, and I know what has worked well and not so well in those courses. Naturally, I’m applying those experiences to the structure of The Relationship Course.
At the same time, I expect to adapt and evolve
I may adjust the course as I see how things go once we begin working with the assignments. Please plan to be open and flexible as the course will proceed dynamically.
We’ll be using a new forum
In past years my online work was done using Meetup’s discussion board for our forum. This year I inaugurated my own forum. We will have had a couple of courses on the forum by the time September rolls around. Nonetheless, it is to be expected that there are going to be some technical bumps along the way.
Special note to those of you who prefer things to be established
If you want a tried-and-true course and a smooth-running forum, please hold off from signing up. This is only the second time we’re doing the Relationship Course, and it’s not yet polished. This course is for those who don’t mind a little dust and grit along the way.
Being that it’s changing and evolving, how will you know what you’re in for?
The best thing I can suggest is to read the Testimonials of others who have done the online group work with me. Although The Relationship Course will be structured differently, you’ll get a taste of what it’s like to work with me. Here is what a few people had to say.
Before, I would pull out a notebook and write down appreciations, do a focus wheel (with a circle in the middle and the 12 spokes), and play with the alphabet game. I usually worked with process when I was wanting to feel better about something. I kept telling myself that I’d write everyday
Really the only process I did prior to this was appreciations and occasionally “what if.”
I really enjoyed doing the processes [during this program]. I had read about the focus wheel, but had found it rather confusing. I liked the way Teresa presented it and found it to be really helpful in moving energy.
I loved your program. I love the work you are doing. Your attention to detail was impressive. It showed in your feedback and also when I had a question about formatting you were right on it and very helpful.
Question: My husband and I love each other, but have some issues and stress, especially revolving around parenting our young children. would taking this course together be helpful for us? or is it more for people trying to find a partner?
Answer: A few years ago a father and son attended an in-person event with me. The son was a young doctor (in his residency) who was living at home. With them sitting together, I coached first the father, then the son. It was illuminating for each to hear what I was saying to the other one.
Likewise I think that The Relationship Course would be a good way for a couple to apply the Abraham teachings.The course materials and exercises will be about each person finding his/her own balance. This applies to someone not in a relationship who thinks they would be happier if they were in a relationship. It also applies to someone in a relationship who thinks they would be happier if the other person would behave differently.
What’s your question? As people email me with questions, I’ll post them here along with my answers.
The regular course fee is $350. Early bird price will be $250.
How to Sign Up
The course runs for twelve weeks, from September 9- November 29, 2013. We’ll have a soft start beginning September 6th
- The price is $350
- Registrations will open in late August
- Early-bird pricing of $250 will be available for a limited time