ULTRA SMALL GROUP WORK
Share your work in an ultra small group of two to eight people in private online groups. I participate in each group, and I act as facilitator.
That means you don’t give advice either. The biggest reason is, I don’t want you all preaching to each other. Take care of your own alignment, then notice what’s going right with the other guy.
Other reasons are, once you start commenting it feels like you’ve got to comment on everyone’s post. And that starts getting time-consuming.
But if you’ve got lots of time and you want to comment anyway, I’ve got guidelines for it. As in, your work is to see your groupmates as fine where they are. Therefore, no advice and no suggestions — because we give someone advice when they’re not fine where they are. So find some way that all is well with that person, something that sincerely feels good to you, and then share that. (Which basically means, do a private process to feel good about the person and/or their situation. Then share the best-feeling thoughts from that process.)
The dates of daily posting reflect every-other-week. So you post daily for 7 days, then you have a week off, then you resume for 7 days, and so on. I refer to this as alternating weeks.
There are two groups and their dates (their alternating weeks) dovetail. (On the week that your group is off, the other group is posting.)
For people who want to post every day (not to have weeks off), they accomplish this by signing on for both groups. If you sign up for both groups…
If you have an erratic schedule and/or you are having a hard time doing your work and you’re signing up because you really need the accountability — you’ll do better with posting every week. It’s easier to maintain momentum than to stop and have to start again.
There is special pricing for these folks; instead of paying double the alternate-week rate, you’ll pay a special fee. (For eg. instead of $99×2=$198/month, it will be $150/month)
If you have questions, email me. I reply within 24 hours (usually much sooner!).
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